Electric vehicle (EV) charging will bring new challenges to the coordination of grid and EV load. To facilitate large-scale EV applications, optimal scheduling of EVs has become essential. However, the power grid has no power to force EV users to charge or give up charging. The actual type and mode of user's charging, may deviate from the expectations of grid. When the number of deviation's EV is sufficient, the power grid schedule will not achieve the expected results. In this context, a multi-objective scheduling method considering user's charging selection is proposed to determine the optimal EV charging. The novel contributions of this paper lie in the exploitation of the user's preferences and their criterion of charging selection in form of functions based on concepts from economics. Three types of charging preferences for EV users including radical, conservative and balanced are used to influence the charging cost of EVs and load variance of grid. Finally, the ideal scheduling and actual scheduling are used to simulate various scenarios. The extensive results show that by introducing a method considering the influence of EV user's selection, the efficacy of the proposed scheduling can be further improved.