Interpersonal processes in close relationships.

INTRODUCTION . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 610 INTERDEPENDENCE . . . . . . . . . . . . ................................................................... 611 Definitions of Relationships and of Closeness . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . ................. 611 Norms Governing the Giving and Acceptance of Benefits . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . ................. 612 EMOTION . . . . . . . . . . ............ ..... ......... .......................... ....................... ......... 618 Perceivers' Emotions, Impressions of Others, and Social Interest. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 619 INTIMACy..... . . . . . . ........ . ... . . . . ....... . . . . . . . .......... . . . . . . ..... . . . . ......... . . . .. ..... . . . ..... 628 Components of Intimacy. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 628 Examining Intimacy on Diff erent Levels . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 630 Sex Diff erences . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 636 Is Intimacy All Good? . . . . . . . . .......... .............................. .................. ......... 636 LOVE. . . . . . ........... . ............ . . . .. . . . . ........ . . . . .. .......... . . . . . ........ . . . . ........ . . . . . . ...... 637 Descriptions of Love: Prototypes and Varieties . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . ...................... ...... 638 Interpersonal Processes in the Experience of Love . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 640 INDIVIDUAL DIFFERENCES IN RELATIONSHIP PROCESSES ... . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 645 Systematically Relating Personality Variables to Relationships: The Case of Self-Monitoring . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 646 Examining Interaction Between People with Specified Dispositions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 647 New Individual-Diff erence Measures . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 648 Neglected Areas . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 650 METHODOLOGY . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 651 New Research-Design Strategies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 652 New Procedures and Techniques . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 656 CONCLUDING COMMENTS................ .. ....... .............. . .............. . . . ............. 660

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