An intense terahertz laser field is shown to actively manipulate the electronic states, as well as the linear and nonlinear optical absorption coefficients, of the laterally-coupled quantum well wires (LCQWWs). The laser-dressed quantum states of the LCQWWs are achieved using the non-perturbative Floquet method and the two-dimensional diagonalization technique under the effective mass approximation. We have demonstrated that the intense terahertz laser field induces a strong deformation of the confinement potential configuration of the LCQWWs, thus pronouncedly dressing the energy levels and wave functions. An unambiguous picture is depicted for the evolution of the laser-dressed quantum states with the increase of the laser-dressed parameter characterizing the strength of the laser-dressed effect. On this basis, the resonant peak positions of the linear and nonlinear optical absorption coefficients feature a blue shift followed by a red shift with an increase of the laser-dressed parameter. Furthermore, the evolution of the peak values for the linear and third-order nonlinear optical absorption coefficients as a function of the laser-dressed parameter is comprehensively discussed. Moreover, in contrast to the case without intense terahertz laser field, the peak values of the linear, third-order nonlinear, and total optical absorption coefficients can be obviously enhanced at the same frequency position by manipulating the appropriate laser-dressed parameter. A similar feature can be found in the linear, third-order nonlinear, and total refractive index changes. Our findings are conducive to the implementation of the expected quantum states and nonlinear optical effects in the LCQWWs, paving the way for new designs in tunable optical switches, infrared photo-detectors and infrared modulators.