Balancing the power supplies and power demands in smart home environment is key issue of today home energy management system (HEMS). In this paper, HEMS with a controller, named home energy management and control system that incorporates with admission control scheme is proposed to ensure the household power use efficiently. With introduction of "Quality of Energy Service", this paper presents a balancing power negotiation algorithm for the controller to leverage the peak power usage and guarantee the balance in between the power renewable supplies and power demands of all home appliances in the timely manner. Numerical simulation results reveal that the proposed BPN algorithm can efficiently balance the household power use in both Summer and Winter seasons.